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All they have are the memories.

My friend Kathy was house hunting recently.  She found a cute little house in a nice neighborhood, on a corner lot, and close to good schools.  In her mind’s eye, she could picture a nice yard for her kids to play in, and family cookouts in the summer – underneath the mounds of snow that are there today.

Betty was an 84 year old woman who owned that home that Kathy could see herself and children in.  Betty had lived there for years raising her own family of 5 kids in the small house built in the 1920s.  So old, in fact, that it lacked a lot of modern amenities, including heat in the 2nd floor.  Despite that, they made it work.  The children became adults, and moved out and had children of their own.

Unfortunately, last year Betty passed away.  She had long paid off the mortgage, and her children helped with the major chores at the house, such as plowing the driveway.  As her loving legacy, she left the 5 children an equal stake in their childhood home.

Betty’s children listed the home for sale, and that’s where their path crossed with Kathy.

The house was listed at $300k, but in order to get into move in condition, the house needed $30k worth of work.

Kathy made a bid for the full price, minus the repair work.  The children countered with their list price, no adjustments for work done.

Of course Kathy walked away.

While I’m sure the children were saddened at their mother’s loss, how much do you think they valued their mother’s legacy left to them?  After all, they all had their own homes and had no desire to move back to the old, yet charming, place where they grew up.

So, how much is that house really worth if it can’t be sold?  Zero.

This situation highlights a key concept in personal finance – liquidity.

The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines liquidity as:

consisting of or capable of ready conversion into cash <liquid assets>

When people own something – such as a house – and it’s worth some dollar amount, is it really?  One thing we don’t often think about is how easily we can extract the value from that asset for as close to what we think it’s worth.

For example, if you have $100 in a checking account, there are so many ways you can get your money, and you can get the full $100 in value when you take it out.

But when dealing with other assets, such as houses, yes the children could sell the house right away, but could they get the full value from it?  Likely not.

So when you look at your 401k statement, or hear on the news home prices are rising, take a moment to think how much those are really worth.

I’m sure Betty was showing her love for her children in leaving them the home worth $300k.  Instead, all they have are the memories.